Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Definition of a friend


"The common definition of a friend is someone you know, like and trust; potential alliance partners, with whom the firm has developed strong-form trust through multiple previous interactions.
The common definition of an acquaintance is someone you know and about whom you have some but limited knowledge. We define Acquaintances as potential partner firms that know each other through a limited number of prior interactions; trust between them is semi-strong or weak. The limited prior interaction is highly unlikely to yield strong-form trust.
Lastly, a stranger is someone who is unknown to you; we define Strangers as potential alliance partners that are unknown to each other. Therefore, the form of trust between Strangers is weak."
Lorraine Eden

Intellectual Mind Games

Never underestimate someone's intelligence.

Almost 40

Back in the 90's I had a Waiting to Exhale party and quite a few older women were in attendance. They

shared the 40 something mindset and experiences, and as I approach forty I see subliminal messages

and games very clearly. I appreciate aging, and maturing.

30 Something

I suddenly feel thirty something! I have no idea why this evil spirit is harassing me, but I want her to stop. It's maturity, confidence, ambition, and humanity

"What you think of me is none of my business,"



"What you think of me is none of my business," but ...

You were raised with religious morals and values, yet you approached me with my legs out,

as you expressed your disdain for the chick with the weave, make up and short shorts. Hmmm




Saturday, January 28, 2012

Super Bowl Sunday


NFL.com | Super Bowl 46

www.superbowl.com/
What time is the Super Bowl? The 46th Super Bowl will take place on February 5, 2012 at Lucas Oil Stadium. Kickoff is scheduled for 6:30 ET on NBC.
02/05
Giants
vs
Patriots
-6:30 PM (ET)

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Cracker Barrel - Hiring Practices

I applied for a server position at Cracker Barrel in Hamilton, NJ. Two weeks later I had an interview with one of the store managers, and a second interview one week later with Tom (Store Manager), but I had a death in my family therefore my second interview was postponed. About two weeks later I finally had my second interview with Tom, (he could not find my application therefore I spent a few minutes completing another one), and he suggested I also interview with Jim (which I found strange - 3 interviews for a server seems extreme). After three seemingly successful interviews I was given a start date of September 15, 2011, and advised I'd receive a call to confirm the date, time, and uniform prior to the start of training.

As of September 14 I had not received a phone call therefore I contacted the store and was advised by one of the night managers 4 trainees were scheduled to start the following day, but my name was not listed. After a brief conversation with him I decided to contact Tom, General Manager, the following morning. later that evening I remembered Tom informing me of the stores policy to only train four trainees at one time. In this economy, I became very discouraged and a bit upset prompting me to contact the corporate office and write this blog.

The next day I called the store for Tom, he said, he does not recall hiring me Jim must have given me a start date and once again my second completed application was nowhere insite. He agreed to find it and give me a call back. Needless to say I never heard from him again.

I would love to know the reason my application was obviously "lost" twice, and why I was given a start date if the managers had no intention of hiring me in the first place. How rude!